Relationship between father and kids.

 Children are the gift of almighty.

Children are the joy of life and comfort of the eyes.

Every Mother must have asked their children a question that to whom you love the most 

"Baba or Mama "?

and sometimes Mama & sometimes Baba enjoys  the reply.

My kids are more attached to their father rather than me. However, they love me a lot, but they have a great bonding with their baba.

They love to play cricket or other outdoor games with him. They try to make some FUN activities with him. They wait for him every night to have dinner together.

Whenever he gets leave from his office, whether it is a weekend or any public holiday, they celebrate it like an Eid day.

I always get jealous of him that how he handles three super-naughty kids at the same time. And I usually ask him in a very sad tone that "kids love you more than me", And he replies to me with a candy smile. 

" No, kids adore you more because you are the one who always tries to make them happy in any situation."

And I am amazed that how beautifully He tries to motivate & admire me like always.

Do you know?

When father play, talk and attend to child’s needs and spend time with them, it helps:👶🏻

Build a child’s brain, grow into intelligent individuals.

The role of a father in the family is remarkably important to their child or children's psychological and physical wellbeing. When a child has a healthy relationship with a father.

They grow up to have higher levels of psychological health, as well as quality relationships.

A father's figure can significantly influence the life and wellbeing of their child. 

Naturally, children are incredibly sensitive and remarkably observant. 

These early interactions with their father impact both the father-son relationship and the father-daughter relationships. which is always helpful for both of them.

This means that an unhealthy relationship with the father can extensively impact the child's psychological wellbeing. 

An active father can help increase your child’s emotional intelligence and problem-solving capabilities.

The emotional support which a father provides to his child is a priceless gift. By helping kids to understand how much they are valued and loved.

Children are naturally full of questions, and parents approach those questions in different ways. father has a unique way to share their perspective on life and teach their kids valuable life skills.

Here we discuss some responsibilities of a good father towards his children.

Always Being kind, nurturing, and genuinely connecting with your child without distractions

Always expressing love in healthy ways

Always being understanding and forgiving for your kids.

Not imposing or projecting your conceptions onto your child.

Giving your child the space to be themselves

Offering acceptance and compassion

Teaching healthy communication skills, as well as appropriate conflict resolution skills.

Setting appropriate boundaries and discipline appropriately.

no violence, yelling, withholding of affection and no prolonged punishments.

We should realize that our fathers have raised us with so much care, that we can never fully pay back them.

Abu Huraira (RadhiAllahu Anhu) reported: The Messenger of Allah, SallAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam, said:

لَا يَجْزِي وَلَدٌ وَالِدًا إِلَّا أَنْ يَجِدَهُ مَمْلُوكًا فَيَشْتَرِيَهُ فَيُعْتِقَهُ

“No child can compensate his father unless he finds him as a slave, buys him, and sets him free.”

[Source: Sahih Muslim 2787, Grade: Sahih]

Such the great honor a father deserves.

Islam often discusses the value and importance of Mothers. Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) has stated several Hadith in regards to the superiority of Mothers.

However, it is important to note that the role of a father is also highly recognized in Islam. It is said that,

“Allah’s pleasure is in the pleasure of the father, and Allah’s displeasure is in the displeasure of the father.”

Fathers are significant because they are commanded by Allah (SWT) to work hard to provide the physical, educational, psychological, and spiritual needs of a child. 

Develops a father-child bond; 👨‍👧‍👦💖and 

Enables family harmony 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦💞

It’s About Time fathers start playing an active role in children nurturing.💙

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